FAQ
Are you having a traditional wedding?
Nope! We are having a day of fun and lots of silliness. We will have a ceremony, but don't plan on being very formal about it, and the rest of the day will be spent eating, dancing, mingling, and participating in various games of ridiculousness.
What should we wear?
Wear what you like! We plan on dressing up, but not super dressing up (perhaps a nice dress and suit, but no bridal gown or tuxedo). We will not object to anyone who wishes to dress up or dress down.
After seeing your save the dates and invitations, I must ask: is your wedding western or circus themed?
Nope! Just...fun/silliness themed?
Is there really going to be a bouncy house?
Yes! We can all bounce to our hearts' content!
What time should we show up?
Guests are welcome to arrive any time between noon and 4pm. The ceremony will begin at 4pm, so make sure to be at the venue before that time. We will have games and activities set up around the barn (and outside, providing the weather cooperates), and we would love for everyone to have time to mingle and have fun before the ceremony. Bring a lawn chair or a picnic blanket, if you like!
Will there be food?
Yes, we will have food. After the ceremony, a buffet-style dinner will be provided by Araya's Place, a vegetarian Thai restaurant, and cake will follow. Earlier in the day, we will have various snacks available, perhaps supplemented by potluck dishes from local friends and family. All food will be vegetarian, and most (if not all) will be vegan. If you have other food allergies/sensitivities/etc, please let us know! We might be able to work something out.
Did you say potluck?
Nobody is obligated to bring food, but if you plan on arriving earlier in the day and you would like to bring something, please feel free to. We do ask that everything be vegetarian (or vegan if possible - meaning no meat, dairy, or eggs). We will have a catered meal after the ceremony, but for folks arriving earlier, we will just have snacks/hors d'oeuvres. If anyone wishes to bring a potluck dish, that would be appreciated. (Though you are totally welcome and encouraged to come early sans food!)
What about drinks?
We will be providing wine and beer, as well as a few non-alcoholic options (likely lemonade, iced tea, and water). If you would like to drink something else at the wedding, you are welcome to bring your own supply.
Can I help in other ways?
We will happily accept help - please send us an email to inquire further. We'll have a better idea of what sorts of things we'll need help with as we get closer to the date.
Do you have a registry?
Gifts are most certainly not required, but we have set up a few registries over here. Please do not feel obligated to give us anything. We will be happy just to see you at the wedding!
Are there places to stay near the venue?
Yes! We have added accommodation information to the Venue page.